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Why People Fail

Filed under: Personal Growth — bryan_fleming @ 11:52 am

A good friend of mine just started a website design business a few months ago. I asked him how things are going, he said, “great”. He went on to tell me about all the wonderful things he’s going to be doing. All the plans he has for his new company.

You know what he didn’t tell me?

Anything that he’s actually done.

He’s a planner. A real big thinker. But he’s not a doer. How many people do you know like this?

The best idea in the world won’t get you anywhere without action. The truth is an idea is just that, an idea. You and I don’t know if it’s good until something gets done. We won’t know until the real world responds to it.

It’s better to do something, anything, rather than sit around planning what might happen. This catches us all from time to time. The trick is recognizing this failure disease and to move on. Think about it. When was the last time you got something done? How did you feel? Were you energized? Did you want to do more?

Getting something out the door, or trying something new is action. Action builds momentum. Momentum will get you to your goal faster. It feeds on itself.

I suspect my friend will still be planning his Internet business this time next year. He’ll probably have a lot more ideas, but nothing will have been done. Had he done anything at all he’d be a lot better off. Would it have been perfect? Most likely not. But he could have improved on it.

Human beings are remarkable creatures. We are very good at responding to our environment. If something’s wrong we’ll naturally fix it. That’s why it’s not very important to get it right the first time. You’ll respond to any problems just fine. It will get better with time.

Let’s all work on getting things done sooner. Let’s not spend so much time sitting around planning what might or might not happen. That type of thinking only slows us down and buries our ambition. Remember:

“It’s better to do something than to sit around worrying about nothing”

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How to Follow the Right People and Get the Results You Want

Filed under: Personal Growth — bryan_fleming @ 10:29 am

One of the quickest sure-fire ways to get anything you want is to find someone who has already done it and do what they did. It’s easy to emulate their success provided they’re willing to tell you.

Today many successful people write books telling you what they did and how they did it. They drop nuggets of wisdom that can make your journey easier. There are two ways to gain experience at anything. Make your own mistakes or learn from someone else’s. The latter of course will cost you a lot less money.

So we should be following people, but how do you know whom you should follow? Might I suggest it would be the people who’ve actually done something?

This month’s issue of Fortune Magazine illustrates this principle right on the cover. If you walk by a magazine stand you’ll it with Jack Welch’s face right on the cover. In big letters it says his rules don’t apply anymore. You can read this article here:

http://money.cnn.com/2006/07/10/magazines/fortune/rules.fortune/index.htm

Let’s examine this closer. We have a journalist Betsy Morris telling us that one of the greatest business leaders of our time is wrong. I ask you, did Betsy turn around a multi-billion dollar corporation? How many companies has she been the CEO of? In short, what is her track record? I believe you’ll find she’s a journalist working a job for a paycheck. There’s nothing wrong with that of course, but the point is, she’s not a business leader. If you want to know how to get on the cover of Fortune magazine, I’m sure she has the best advice for you.

So who’s advice should you follow?

If you’re running a business you should certainly follow the leader who’s done it. Look for his principles, why he does things. Don’t get too caught up in techniques, because those change all the time. Principles never do.

Follow the right people, the people who’ve already done what you want, and you’ll short cut your path to success.

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July 25th Person Growth Carnival

Filed under: Personal Growth Carnival — bryan_fleming @ 10:50 am

Welcome to the July 25th edition of the Personal Growth Carnival. Drum roll please…

Here we go…

July 25th. Let’s see. If I really wanted to draw attention to myself, I’d read up on David Maister’s article of Writers and Performers. But then again, I might not be getting enough out of my day. So I’d follow the advice of Paul Newbury and start Getting up earlier. If I got up earlier. I’d probably feel better, but I’d always go back and forth between Passion or cash? Heaven? or hell?? Thank you Peter Kua for your thoughts on that one!

I might at this point, be a little confused so I’d want to know The Secret to Breaking Out of the Box. After doing that, I might not feel very motivated, so I listen to Jeannie Bauer and follow
her advice of 10 Fabulous Thoughts on Motivation and I think just then I’d be Bouncing Back. Life presents many challenges today. So I’d ask myself do I take the Simple or Complex Approach? Eventually, I’d find myself at work and David Lorenzo would help me out with his advice on Workplace woes and their solutions.

I do have a friend in the realestate business. Times are slow here in the state of Michigan. Consider yourself lucky if you can sell you house! I might share with my RealEstate friends Greg Swann’s advice on Seven essential skills of the 21st century real estate agent…

Like always, thank you for all the submissions and keep them comming. That concludes this edition. Submit your blog article to the next edition of personal growth carnival using my carnival submission form.

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